“It’s not about being right. It’s about being love.” I wrote this August 2013 for my Godson on the occasion of his 18th birthday, and it’s stuck with me. I’ve also put it into a song I wrote with my husband, Kevin. It applies in so many situations. If we were more concerned about loving our fellow man/woman than about being right while they’re wrong or being good to their bad, many of the world’s problems would dissolve. We spend a lot of energy hating the haters. How does that help? Maybe they don’t know any better and haven’t been able to break away from the conditioning of their upbringing and environment. You may not be able to convince them that they are in the wrong. But love is contagious. Let us lead by example.